
Back in the day, this formal book was a way to signify which family and friends actually attended your wedding. In the past, such books resembled that of an address book, with not much frill or flair. Occasionally you’d come across “the diamond in the rough” decorated to suit the occasion. While an important detail that should not be overlooked, I’m happy to tell you that the days of boring old guest books are gone.
There are many creative ways to re-invent the wedding guest book tradition. You and your new spouse can use the book as the official address book of your friends and family. Create it in a way that captures all their current data, including a spot for cell phone and email addresses. You can go so far as to have the photographer snap a photo of each guest as they sign, and include the picture beside their information in the book. Another fun idea is to frame your wedding invitation, and let the guests sign the matte around the frame. They can write well wishes and notes that become a treasured keepsake in your home forever. The list goes on and on. Just remember, the guest book is a reflection of you and should represent your sense of style.
You have so much on your mind while planning the perfect wedding. And understandably, your top priority is you. But have you stopped running around long enough to consider the special people in you life; those who’ve helped you get to this point? We all have them!
nded of the thoughtful gift you gave your bridal party. Additionally, this is a useful gift because it can be worn over and over again after the wedding, reminding your bridesmaids of the special day they shared with you.
I’ve been to enough weddings to understand the importance of the best man’s speech. It always arrives with great fanfare early in the reception, and it sets the tone for the rest of the night. I’ve heard speeches that balance humor and nostalgia to perfect effect, and I’ve witnessed a few that have fallen flat – only to be met with an awkward silence and then some scattered applause.
If there was ever a time to succumb to pomp and circumstance, it’s at a wedding. Guests have come to expect extravagant decadence from a wedding ceremony, and much of that is because of time-honored traditions. We’re all familiar with the bride tossing her bouquet to a hopeful bridesmaid, symbolizing that it will be her turn to marry next. And of course the bride and groom are usually showered with rice on their way out of the chapel.
The wedding procession is the time when all the bride and groom’s best friends and close family members walk down the aisle. The ring bearer and flower girl are perhaps the cutest members of this procession, as they are usually younger boys and girls who look adorable in formal wear. All eyes will be on the cute flower girl as she throws flower petals down the aisle, so it’s important that her dress and accessories coordinate with the rest of the wedding decor.
Often a highlight of a wedding reception is cutting and serving the wedding cake. Wedding cakes can be simple, but they’re often very elaborate. There are even entire TV shows devoted to pastry chefs competing to design the best wedding cake for a couple. No matter what the design of your wedding cake ends up being, the cake topper is to centerpiece and attention grabber of the whole display.
One of the most fun moments at a wedding is when the groom removes and throws the bride’s garter to the single, male guests. According to tradition, the man who catches the garter will be the next to marry. Since many men love being bachelors, some will do all they can to avoid catching it! You can avoid this at your wedding by attaching a fun incentive to the garter. This could be a small token that guarantees a prize for the person who catches it, or a small prize itself – a keepsake, or even money if you really want to encourage enthusiasm!