Weddings are full of symbolism and significant items. To that end, one of the most significant symbols in any given wedding is the pair of wedding rings. Often simple gold bands, they represent unity and the unbroken, infinite bond of love that is the ideal of any wedding. That’s why the ring bearer should be chosen with care. Not only should it be somebody that is responsible enough not to lose the rings, but it should also be someone significant to you as a couple.
If you want to have a child, niece, or nephew fulfill the duties of ring bearer, make sure that the ring bearer pillow has some way to physically attach the rings to the pillow. This way, even if the pillow is dropped or not carried perfectly still, the rings won’t be lost. The system should be something easy to attach and detach, so it won’t take a long time to remove the rings once the ring bearer reaches the altar.